Two of our nieces spent some time with us a couple weeks ago. Naomi and Hannah are the youngest two of my twin brother’s four children. The eldest of the four is the only boy. Elizabeth is second in line and the oldest girl.
My sister-in-law shared, when she brought them to me, that Naomi was a little nervous about their trip away from the rest of the family. Naomi’s apprehension was not as much about being away from her parents as it was that she would not, for the first time in her life, be with Elizabeth.
Naomi was the first to cry and as Alison expected it was because Naomi wanted Beth. Elizabeth is 11. She is a loving, kind playmate and helper for her little sisters. The girls share a room and bedtime was just not the same. It wasn’t long before Hannah joined in. It was certainly very obvious to me that Sisters Really Do Matter.
Unlike my niece Elizabeth, I was not a great big sister. I was five years older and my sisters were twins. I remember being kind to them when I was much younger but by the time I was 10 I was “too cool” for little tag-alongs. If I could have a “do over” I would certainly be more generous with my time and attention.
The Lord has been very good to my twin sisters and me. He restored our relationships and I, for the last 15 years at least, have considered my sisters (the two I was raised with and my sister-in-law) to be some of my very best friends. I value their opinions and advice and I know they truly love me and hope the very best for my family. I know they’re praying for me and can be trusted as confidants.
Our only daughter is smack dab in-between our boys who are 10 years apart in age. In reality, they all function as only children. Emma has rarely had to share her things, has never had to share her space, and has had little responsibility in helping with younger siblings.
Praise The Lord for sisters in Christ! I pray that she (we all) finds women who will love her (us) enough to truly walk with us as “sisters”. I’m fortunate to have many women who “do life” with me; younger women who allow me to share my experience, women walking very similar paths with me who cry with me and support me in my struggles, and older women who’ve raised children, served in ministry, and (or) have years of business experience who share their successes and failures so freely to encourage me.
If you don’t have “sisters”, I encourage you to intentionally seek out Christian women who will love, encourage, and strengthen you – as iron sharpens iron. The kind of “sisters” I hope we surround ourselves with will speak the truth in love, even if it stings for a moment, because they truly want to be invested in our lives and want The Lord’s best for us!
Looking to connect with “sisters”? Check out local Bible studies, community service organizations, and small groups at church. Don’t shy away, carve out some time, introduce yourself, be open, honest, and interested and see what becomes of a genuine “hello!”
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