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Our Home School: The First Two Weeks

We’re officially two weeks into home schooling, and after an interesting conversation with a friend about home school critics and a documentary that aired on 20/20 last year about home schooling I decided to share our daily schedule with you.  The documentary painted a very disparaging picture of home schooling families, a picture that is contrary to what I know to be true of my sisters and now of myself.  I know that home schools vary from family to family, but I offer our home school happenings here to provide a example of a Type-A mommy who is both academically concerned and discipleship minded.  Feel free to contact me should you have any questions I don’t address.

I made some initial decisions about curriculum based on conversations I’d had with my sisters.  I added to those curricula with materials I found available at our local university’s Instructional Resource Center and materials recommended by another veteran home school mom.  I planned the months of June and July; however, I know my plan will be dynamic, changing as I “study” the results, this being uncharted waters for our family.

We jumped in Monday, August 12th at 7:00am.

Two years ago we started morning Bible study with the family, so beginning our day with family Bible time was a given.  We’re using the Veritas Press Bible cards (Creation-Joshua) as a guide this year and are reading from The Child’s Story Bible.  This adaptation is a narrative story format that is both easily understood by our children and beautifully written to keep the adults engaged.  The kids and I are journaling after prayer and reflection as a family.

After Bible, we moved straight into memory work.  I was surprised that my children didn’t know the books of the Bible.  Obviously I’d assumed that these are somehow learned through osmosis.  We started with the Old Testament.  I downloaded a fun video from YouTube (Worship for Kids’ “These are the Books of the Bible”) and streamed it with our AppleTV.  Emma and Caden watched (and sang with) the video twice in a sitting and read through the list of books I’d typed out as a reference after each viewing.  Of course they sang the song throughout the day as it just sticks in your mind and they had mastered the song by Thursday evening.  The second week was spent, Bible in hand, as we learned about the 5 categories of books of the Old Testament and enjoyed 10 or so rounds of an old fashioned “sword drill”.  I said a book, the kids found the book and category on our chart, we talked about the general location of the book based on our song, and practiced finding the book.

Our next subject in the morning is geography.  As we were planning this summer, I found that Emma knows little about geography that she hadn’t learned herself through independent reading and Netflix documentaries.  Last year she learned the states and capitals in school, but hadn’t learned them as a part of an in-depth study on regions.  She doesn’t recall learning much about US waterways, landforms, climate, populations, or maps.

We began with The Middle East, as it correlates with our history curriculum, and will spend 6 three week chunks of time this year learning about major regions in the world.  After 3 weeks in geography and social studies, we’ll spend 3 weeks in science and classic children’s literature read aloud time.  For science we’ve chosen the creation-based Apologia Science curriculum “Zoology 2:  Swimming Creatures of the Fifth Day.”  The student text can be multi-age and two workbooks are published, one for early readers and writers that we purchased for Caden, and one for intermediate students, which we purchased for Emma.  Emma sees herself as a marine biologist or working with animals as a career.  She is thrilled with our content rich approach in general.

I’ve chosen 4 fairly challenging “read alouds” for our geography/history unit.  The past two weeks I learned more about The Middle East (land, climate, people, history, countries, and communities) than I’ve ever learned on the evening news in years.  We took notes and transferred the most noteworthy for 6 “major” Middle Eastern countries, the land dispute, religion, and terrorism to a display board notes organizer.  We’ll finish our display with the map and pictures this coming week.  Emma also began a rough draft for her culminating essay.

I divided the Middle East map items I want the kids to master into three weeks’ work; week 1 was political features, week 2 they will focus on waterways, and week 3 we will add landforms.  They will round out this unit with a cumulative map test.  Emma is responsible for about 30 features and Caden has 18 to learn.

At roughly 9:00 each morning we took a break to complete daily chores, harvest the garden, and shower.  If the shower weren’t officially a part of the routine, I’m not sure it would have happened!

At 9:45 we began our math and language arts time.  Emma is working with a video supplement for Saxon 7/6.  Each lesson is taught, via a video of direct instruction on an animated “blackboard”, and fact fluency, lesson practice and mixed practice is much the same that would be found in the classroom setting.  Emma wanted to complete 2 lessons a day the first week, as the first 10 looked like they would be review for her, and recognized immediately that I was there to grade her work, provide time for corrections, and move on quickly to a language arts activity.  She was so happy to realize that “waiting” is not going to have to be a part of our home school routine and that she will receive a quick re-teach on problems she knows she’s struggled with.

Emma was challenged daily by Wordly Wise.  A vocabulary curriculum that’s designed for deep understanding and application of 20 new words a week, Emma struggled the first several days.  It wasn’t “easy” and Emma was emotionally frustrated by the challenge.  She’s used to quickly completing work without much critical concentration.  She and I were both pleased this Friday with her progress week 2 compared to week 1 and the critical thinking she had to grapple with.

Her literature the first three weeks is a daily self-selected article from Holt, Rinnehart, and Winston’s The Ancient World: Prehistory to the Roman Empire content-are reader.  Most of the selections are primary sources and the comprehension questions have led to some important cross-curriculum conversations.

While Emma was working through her Saxon lessons, vocabulary practice, and literature comprehension each day, Caden and I had time for his math lesson, spelling, vocabulary and grammar practice and guided reading.  In one week he zipped through 2 chapters of a state adopted curriculum, Harcourt Math, acing both “chapter” tests and is ready for what would be, if he were in the public school classroom, the 6th or 7th week’s work tomorrow, day 1 of week 3.

Facebook allowed us to “survey” for both a histogram Emma worked on this week and 4 surveys, tally tables, bar and picture graphs Caden worked on.  We were both shocked and grateful that we received literally hundreds of responses to our “input” requests!  Caden had so much fun with math, stating our math time together was his favorite part of the week.

Emma and I checked all her work, Emma made corrections, and we worked on her spelling and grammar (Phillips Easy Grammar Grade 6) lessons while Caden started “The Magic Tree House” books on CD.  He’s got a great attention span and enjoyed listening to these stories for most of an hour while Emma and I worked.  He’ll start book 9 Monday and when piano begins again this will also be piano practice time for Caden.

After a lunch break we finished our “school day” with history.  We are using Margaret Wise Bauer’s The Story of World: Ancient Times this year.  We’re listening to a CD reading of the chapters, taking notes, creating a time line, and completing the activity pages from the curriculum guide.  We supplemented our reading with two primary source readings on Tutankhamen’s tomb.

Monday and Tuesday afternoons the kids played well together, and Wednesday and Thursday afternoons we had cousins’ play-date time.  Friday was (and will be) more of an out and about kind of a day.  Week 1 we had public library time and went to Clovis for the Curry County Fair animals and exhibits.  Week 2 the kids had cooking class with their grandmother (warm homemade tortillas for lunch – yum!) who plans to pass on her Hispanic cooking secrets this year.

Emma and Caden have Tae Kwon Do, the ENMU Children’s Choir, and piano lessons to round out their week.  My clarinets are both being re-padded in anticipation of Emma and I beginning clarinet in September, we will continue our Spanish acquisition at ENMU when the language lab community hours are set for the semester and when our backyard swimming pool is closed for the season we will look into swimming lesson at ENMU’s nat.

I’m certainly not saying that this is or should be the model for all home schools.  I do not presume to know, after 2 weeks, much of anything, but I’m grateful to have the flexibility to do what I feel called to do and what I feel is appropriate for my children.  I’ve made decisions knowing these two children more intimately than any human on Earth, with the exception of their daddy, and I know that what feels right for me might not feel right for all home schooling families.  Many families are even more academically focused with a classical bent that I’ve yet to wrap my mind around; however, I do hope that in sharing our story a more balanced understanding of what home school looks like can be achieved than the picture portrayed by the 20/20 documentary.

And because there’s certainly more to our story than the schedule and curriculum alone…

After managing 18-21 in the classroom the last 17 years, managing 2, and specifically 2 whom I can discipline, was fairly easy.  Reading aloud for an hour every morning was a wee-bit taxing, but is nothing compared to the alternative of having to repeat every directive over and again and teach with a “teacher-voice” in the classroom.  Caden and Emma were attentive and interested in everything we did, worked hard to do their best, wasted little time during “school” and accomplished at least 2 weeks worth of academics each week without the “down time” that is a given when the classroom teacher is managing 20+ students at a time, many of whom are not interested, not ready and not willing.

Our oldest son, Bailey, is a senior this year, is taking classes at our local University, has just started his first job, and has a sweet girlfriend named Hannah.  In being home, I’ve had so many short conversations and several longer stretches of time with him; opportunities that I’ve missed in the past.  I’m so excited to enjoy this year and this season of life with him!

I knew this year would be a blessing for all of us, but I didn’t realize the many blessings of it would be so easily seen the first few days.  I do believe this year will be amazing for our family and I’m so grateful that Franklin was willing to let us take this adventure, that I have home-schooling sisters who’ve forged the way for me, that I’ve begun to build some support-system relationships locally and that my family is willing to live a more simple lifestyle to allow this.  My stress level is nil, when compared to years past, and my family seems to be settling into a less hurried schedule.  Words cannot express how blessed I am.  And to you my friends… blessings!

So… Why Are We Homeschooling?

Our beautiful children:  Emma (11), Bailey (17), and Caden (7)

Our beautiful children: Emma (11), Bailey (17), and Caden (7)

Let me digress…

Some of my friends are still trying to process my resignation, and I think, for most of them, my resignation was the first and most surprising of our two announcements this Spring.

After 17 years in the public school classroom it was certainly assumed that I would teach at least another 10 years to “retire”. In the natural, that might have been the “responsible” approach. But Franklin and I feel called to consider much more than that.

Before you question our wisdom, Franklin and I drank Dave Ramsey’s Kool-Aid eight years ago and are in a position to “responsibly” make this transition. Our vacations may have to be stay-cations for the time being but we know how to budget and we count ourselves blessed to have enough to meet our needs and enough to help others on Franklin’s income.

Quite honestly, I did not know that I would home school our two youngest when I resigned. I pictured myself at home working on my collection of books in the Fall and marketing the collection in the Spring. Although all 4 of our sisters home school their children, I’ve always worked outside the home. The thought of homeschooling myself never crossed my mind.

In fact, I had the opportunity to teach our youngest in my classroom for 1/2 of every day this past year. I team taught in the Dual Language program so his English portion was with me. Last summer I was so excited to have him and I remember thinking, “This is the closest I’ll ever get to homeschooling one of my own.”

As the vision for the collection developed this Spring I felt the need to learn more about the homeschooling community in New Mexico. I made plans to attend the CAPE convention in April and being the “kill two birds with one stone” kind of gal that I am I scheduled our daughter’s annual ophthalmologist appointment in Albuquerque that Thursday morning. I bribed her to keep me company at the conference with mall money and we headed into the opening session hand in hand. Within three minutes I was sure that The Holy Spirit was calling me to home school for 2013/2014.

Several things were addressed that weekend that caused me to think very deliberately and specifically about Emma and Caden’s education.

First and foremost I want to explicitly say that our decision to home school is not a reaction to anything that happened to our children. I can honestly say that our children have had strong public school teachers and the teachers I taught with in our hometown are fantastic.  You see, regardless of what might be assumed, teachers are not policy makers. Most are responsible for delivering an externally determined set of standards to a classroom full of children. These children are a reflection of today’s society and the social concerns you see around you. The hurt, the broken, the abused, the abusive, the sick, the needy, the depressed, and the angry have children. Those children fill our public school classrooms. Many are unprepared for formal instruction and their fractured families have extreme concerns that often place school at the bottom of their list of priorities.  I will always be a advocate for my friends doing the very best they can in the trenches caring for a population that needs an extreme amount of love and encouragement.

For us, the decision is about two very simple truths.  First and foremost, God gave us these children to train in His ways to His glory.  The discipleship of our children is our responsibility.

My junior high and high school years were not attractive.  I had enough attitude for myself and a small entourage, thought I knew so much more than I really did, and made some decisions that I’d later regret.  I’ve always said that when Emma hit middle school I’d have to make myself more available.  I want to speak into her life in such a way that she grows in beauty and grace and the character of God.  I want her to remain pure and protected while developing both responsibility and independence and I believe that will require more “time on task” from me.  Simply stated, I know homeschooling will provide me an awesome opportunity to speak into her life.

And second, I want my children to benefit from curriculum that explicitly points to God as The Creator and Our Provider.

Two summers ago I bought a fantastic Apologia science curriculum that points to God the Creator in every lesson.  Emma has been quite sure that she will study marine biology when she grows up and the Swimming Creatures of the Fifth Day looked like the perfect fit.  We had plans to study the text at home but never cracked the book open.  After dinner and homework, we found ourselves too tired to study another text.  I’d also purchased Susan Wise Bauer’s The Story of the World:  Ancient Times at about that same time.  Having a minor in history I looked forward to reading this narrative approach with my children.  We made more progress in this text but I found myself falling asleep after a page and half, using this book as our bedtime story.

Homeschooling will give me the opportunity to 1) disciple my children in a powerful and meaningful way that I’ve not been able to do to this point and 2) choose curriculum that cannot be used in the public school.

I cannot tell you how excited I am to begin this journey!