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Learning New Things Really Does Matter

My brother-in-law Tim is always in search of an adventure.  When Tim is around, you can be sure that there will be little, if any, down time.  Tim is an experience-waiting-to-happen kind of a guy and if you’re with him for the better part of any given day, you will be encouraged to join in the fun.  This is precisely why I’ve spent the better part of the last week sore.

I’ve not ever officially learned to ski.  Before this winter’s trip to Wyoming, I’d been on skis twice as a teen (for single day ski trips with my church) and once as an adult.  The day after Franklin and I married, we froze as we bumbled our way down a bunny slope 3 or 4 times before throwing in the poles.  Lesson learned – proper snow gear is imperative.

I’m pretty sure Tim started planning the minute we agreed to come for an extended stay.  When we arrived Tim had 4 days of skiing and possible tubing and boot packing excursions planned.  It mattered not in the least that Caden and Emma had never been on skis nor did it worry Tim that I’m particularly out of shape right now.  I’m so glad he threw down the gauntlet because Learning New Things Really Does Matter.

learning new things

I’ve always loved school.  I worked hard, wanted to excel, and rarely had difficulty with new content.  Activities that required physical agility were quite a different story.  As was learning a second language.

My husband and I spent 2 weeks in Guanajuato, Mexico 3 summers ago.  We participated in a Spanish immersion program and I was the bottom of the class.  Nights were restless as my mind wrestled to make sense of each day’s lessons.  I was an emotional wreck at the end of the 2 weeks (and I’m a bit of a physical wreck after 4 days of skiing) but again, the challenge of learning something that required real effort was significant.

While human brain plasticity will never be as great as it is from birth to age 4, it is imperative for children and adults to be challenged every day.  I don’t mind sharing that I loved watching my students wrestle with a problem that required real thought in the classroom.  I was never one to give too many hints without first requiring true effort.  That struggle is where true learning happens.  I’m sure they hated me saying, over and again, “If it were easy, it wouldn’t be worth much!”

Our brain continues to make new connections (neural pathways connecting brain cells that lead to improved memory and processing) throughout our life as we mentally grapple with novel and complex challenges.  Those new connections keep our brain strong and healthy.

Not only does new learning chemically strengthen our brain, but our body physically responds to the satisfaction that comes from constantly developing and challenging one’s self.  With a greater sense of purpose and personal growth, our body physically responds with lower cortisol levels, better immune function, and more efficient sleep.

What kind of new learning have you participated in lately?  What would you recommend this 40 year old new-to-skiing homeschooling mom mentally grapple with next?  Join the conversation by replying at the top of this post.

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Read Alouds Really Do Matter

I’m blessed to be in Wyoming with Emma and Caden (our 12 and 8 year old) and 6 of my nieces and nephews.  My younger sister Kathi and her husband have out-of-town obligations this coming week.  I’m filling in during their absence after having learned their routines and the layout of Jackson last week.

Today I cooked 3 meals for myself and 8 children, got everyone to church on time, negotiated nap time for a 2 and 4 year old, planned our meals and purchased groceries for the week, supervised their family’s weekly cleaning day, got 2 loads of laundry done, bathed the youngest two and had all 8 tucked into bed on time.

Quite honestly, I’m pooped.  I was ready to sit down and put my feet up 3 hours ago.  I could have easily justified eliminating tonight’s bedtime stories with the youngest 2 but I powered through because Read Alouds Really Do Matter.

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My nieces have many of their books memorized and “read” several of the pages with me.  In fact, Grace (it won’t surprise you that she’s 2) corrected my meter for We’re Going on a Bear Hunt.  Apparently, my sister and I have a different rhythm for the book’s refrain.

Carli and Grace are clearly reaping the many benefits of being read to.  Reading aloud to children:

  • Exposes children to rich, sophisticated language, structure, and vocabulary
  • Increases a child’s attention span, listening skills, and working memory
  • Cultivates a child’s creativity and imagination
  • Fosters a love of reading and learning
  • Introduces children to people, places, things, and events around the world and throughout history
  • Nurtures the emotional bond between parents and children

I love that Kathi has several of the same board books for her children that I had when my children were little.  We’re Going on a Bear Hunt (Rosen and Oxenbury) and Goodnight Moon (Margaret Wise Brown) brought back a flood of memories.  The Very Hungry Caterpillar (Eric Carle), Blue Hat, Green Hat (Sandra Boynton), Sheep in a Jeep (Nancy Shaw), and Mo Willems’ Pigeon and Gerald and Piggie books were also some of our favorites.

Research indicates that the benefits of reading aloud to children continue into their pre-teen years (as a child’s reading level doesn’t catch up to his listening level until eighth grade).   My own children are no longer toddlers and our read alouds have certainly changed, but reading aloud is still a part of our daily routine.  Not only have we read (or listened to) several books aloud for pleasure this year (Charlotte’s Web, Matilda, The Trumpet of the Swan, The Chronicles of Narnia, and Peter Pan) but we’ve read increasingly for academic study reading no less than 8 books aloud (each) for the Middle East, Africa, Asia, and marine biology.

I suspect (as the week goes on and fatigue sets in) there will be evenings when I might not want to read a pile of books to my nieces.  No doubt about it – parenting well requires sacrificial love and diligence.  But keep your eye on the prize!  Ultimately, reading aloud is an investment with guaranteed dividends.  Your commitment to reading aloud with your children every day will pay off one-hundred fold in the long run.

What are your family’s favorite read alouds for pre-school and school aged children?  Join the conversation by replying at the top of this post.

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